“新婚生活怎么样啊?”
婚后,很多人问。
“没什么不同啊。都是一样。”
我觉得这个答案是好现象。
很多人说,婚后,男的女的,都会‘原形毕露’。
还好,我和Ed都是‘坦率’的人。
所有缺点很早前已‘很自然’地表现出来了。
我的小姐脾气,他牛一样的固执。
算了,习惯就好。;)
人人说,结婚就代表互相尊重,彼此接受,缺点和优点,对吗?
这个,我深深相信。
其实,我们已达很高境界 – 爽脆和幽默。
高兴不高兴的,都拿出来讲。谈下谈下,很快就会多了解。
暂时解决不了的,幽彼此一默,笑了后,有些执着好像已不重要。
所以,生活上是没问题的。
除了吵些无聊的,天天都开开心心。
啊!对了,婚后,唯一不同和不习惯的,就是,我们都不爱戴我们的结婚戒指….







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haha.. caryn and i also lazy to wear wedding ring, we only used it during our big day, registration day, photo session and dinner
me too! our wedding rings are in the drawer! Worst case is….Ben’s ring is not the original ring… he lost it when he was riding banana boat during his company trip, haha!
hahaha….I feel better now. I thought we are the only odd ones out. Ed’s friends don’t understand us and don’t get it. They have been wearing theirs 24 hours everyday since marriage, and one couple never take the rings out of their fingers for the last 16 years !!
Yih Loong,
Heehee….at least, when I go out for party, I try to remember to wear it, in case I get picked up
So, you don’t even wear it to work or go out for party? Aiya, you are worse
Waisum,
I agree ! I don’t wear it when I go out for sports or travel. I am pretty sure I will leave or lose it at the cottage or hotel !
Haahaa….that’s funny. So, rather than lose it, might as well keep them in the drawer, right?
如此的相處方式很好玩呢, 這樣婚姻生活才會有趣啊..
婚姻生活真正開始不同的時候, 是要等到小孩來臨的時候..
all the best.. hehe :p
SK is absolutely right! 想要体会不一样的结婚生活就生两个来玩玩啦!
SK,
哎呀!没那么快啦。还想飞来飞去。虽然,心痒痒,妈妈奶奶催到我们好烦。那个时候,我一定要向有三个可爱宝宝的靓嫂 慧沁请教!
慧沁师父 !!
我将来一定会 拜你为师!多多指教!
我每一天都記得帶,不帶好像不爽一樣~
不是最近的事啦。。。
六月的事了,註冊而已~
應該是明年舉行婚禮吧,其實是個習慣而已,感覺上帶著它就感覺比較踏實而已~
啊!原来你已婚。是最近的事吗?
因为你是学弟,总感觉你还很年轻。嘻嘻!
或许,我算是迟婚的。
啊!恭喜恭喜!踏实,是好事。你太太是幸福的。
而我们则是健忘!和很怕弄丢了。因为冬天,手指会缩小,戒指变得很松。常担心洗手时,会掉进洗手盆。